Early yesterday morning, an egg placed next to a milk bottle in our fridge, was lightly crushed by the pressure of its neighbour. The egg remained intact, despite the fact that the shell was fractured & some egg yolk was released.
In about the same hour, I was dreaming in my sleep. In the dream, I was a child, a member of a Royal family, packing up my things for our imminent departure from the palace. The country had become unstable due to either war or revolution, I couldn't tell, but in hindsight, the setting of my dream was mostly akin to the stories I heard about the Russian Royal families.
Logic is never necessary in a dream, so for no reason at all, the me in my dream boiled an egg, pealed its shell, and found that I had no appetite for it. Food had become scarce, so throwing it away would be a terrible misconduct, and some family members were urging me to hurry up and get moving. I was left in a dilemma, but was soon relieved because the dream changed and I became someone else.
And hour or two later, while sitting in front of the computer, my mind suddenly made a connection between the two incidents. Why was I dreaming about an egg? It's certainly not a common theme of my dreams.
After years of casually reading about the human mind, I believe that we, human beings, even with our technological advances, still cannot describe the full extent of our mind's capabilities. So its fully possible that my mind somehow picked up what happened in the fridge, and brought it into my (the dreamer's) consciousness.
This is one of those things that makes you go like "woo...", as if someone had tipped over a bottle and spilled a sense of wonder all over your solar plexus.
It was not the first time something like this happened.
Back in 2007, I had a dream in an early morning, in which I was a mountain climber walking on a precarious path. The feeling of danger and the imminent threat of falling down the mountain was vivid and alive even after I woke up. Later that day, I heard on the news that two climber felt down on Mt. Cook and died.
I've claimed half-jokingly that I'm a half-psychic from time to time, and I really believe that my intuition almost always knows more than my consciousness mind does.
I've long given up my interest in explaining why or how the intuition works, I just want to use it to my advantage.
Yesterday afternoon, I began listening to the audio book version of Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking. "Blink is about the first two seconds of looking--the decisive glance that knows in an instant." -- Amazon.com.
There was an interesting experiment described in the book. It's a simple gambling game: imagine there are 4 decks of cards in front of you, two red and two blue. You were told the rules and just have to turn over cards from any of the decks, one by one. What they didn't tell you is that the red decks contained high risk cards, which will punish you severely when you turn them over. So the only way you can win the game is to only turn over cards from the blue decks.
A group of scientists from the University of Iowa did this experiment a few years ago, and they found that most people developed a hunch of what's going on, after turning over about 50 cards.
Now here comes the interesting part, the researchers hooked the participants up to a polygraph, to measure the activity of the sweat glands in their hands, and they found that the participants started to develop stress responses to the red decks by the 10th card! That's 40 cards before they started to get a hunch of what's going on consciously.
The excerpt of the book can be found here: http://www.gladwell.com/blink/blink_excerpt1.html
Our body (ie. our subconscious/unconscious mind) knows what's going on before our conscious mind does!
What surprised me was that, I came to this same conclusion after learning how to interact with people in more direct & natural ways! People can lie, or even you can lie to yourself, but in either case, responses from your body can't.
To be more intuitive, means to listen to your body, or more precisely, to be aware of the feelings or hunches in your body.
It's long been my belief that whether you're happy, sad, angry or nervous...etc, other people can sense it instinctively.
From the body's point of view, you can say that their body can always sense how you truly feel, whether their conscious mind can register what they are sensing or not, that depends on how much awareness they have to their own inner responses.
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